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Allard Nelly  Couple Mechanics In My Blog Post Reasons to Stay after Betrayal
Allen Charlotte  ‘Elizabeth Gilbert’s “I’m a Seduction Addict”–Well, That’s a Fancy Way of Saying, He Never Called’ Independent Women’s Forum In My Blog Post What is This Female Desperation For a Man?
Ariely Dan  Predictably Irrational: The Hidden Forces That Shape Our Decisions In my Blog Post Inside The Adulterer’s Mind
Bakhtin Mikhail  Towards a Philosophy of the Act. In my Blog Post Over it? An Interesting Concept
Bancroft Lundy  why Does He Do That; Inside the minds of angry and controlling men In my Blog Post Adultery Is Abuse
Bauman Zygmunt  Liquid Love In My Blog Post Adultery and the Future of Commitment
Bercht Anne  My Husband’s Affair Became the Best Thing That Ever Happened to Me in my Blog Post Stories of Adultery
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Byron Lord  Stanzas for Music In my Blog Post Responses to Betrayal
Caldwell Gail  New life, no instructions in My Blog Post Reasons to Stay After Betrayal
Chester Phyllis  Woman’s Inhumanity to Woman In my Blog Post The Other Woman’s Hatred For The Wife
Coelho Paul  Adultery in my Blog Post Pulling the Pain of Betrayal Out of the Hat
Coleridge Samuel Taylor  The Rhyme of the Ancient Mariner In my Blog Post I am So Fed Up With Adultery
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Del Rey Lana The Other Woman In my Blog Post Wanting the Other Woman to Suffer
DeSteno David  The Truth About Trust In My Blog Post Trust After Adultery
Didion Joan  The Year of Magical Thinking In my Blog Post Responses to Betrayal
Druckerman Pamela  Lust in Translation In my Blog Post Adultery: Socially Tolerated – Individually Unbearable
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Figes Kate  Our Cheating Hearts; Love & Loyalty, Lust & Lies In my Blog Post Is agreeing to work on my marriage after my husband’s infidelity an act of generosity, self preserving behaviour or sado-masochism?
Foster Wallace David  Commencement Speech to Kenyon College class of 2005 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8CrOL-ydFMI In My Blog Post Adultery, Prostitution and Male Sexuality
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Giddens Anthony  The Transformation of Intimacy In My Blog Post Adultery and the Future of Commitment
Golden Arthur  Memoirs of a Geisha In my Blog Post Betrayed and Proud
Greene Graham  The End of The Affair In my Blog Post Why blog about adultery?
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Griswold Charles L  Forgiveness; a philosophical exploration In My Blog Post Forgiveness #2
Harris José N  Mi Vida In my Blog Post Responses to Betrayal
Harris Sam  Lying In my Blog Post Lying and Adultery
Hartley LP  The Go-Between In my Blog Post Inside The Adulterer’s Mind
Hawthorne Nathaniel  The Scarlet Letter In my Blog Post Understanding Why Adultery Happens
Hemingway Ernest  Farewell to Arms In my Blog Post Turning an ugly affair into a beautiful repaired marriage
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Knapp Caroline  Drinking; a love story In my Blog Post Seeing The Adultery Differently
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Koppelman Susan  The Other Woman; Stories of Two Women and a Man In my Blog Post How Does The Other Woman do it?
LaBier Douglas  ‘Having An Affair? There Are Six Different Kinds’ in https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-new-resilience/201004/having-affair-there-are-six-different-kinds In My Blog Post Adultery, Prostitution and Male Sexuality
Lakoff George  Don’t Think of an Elephant In my Blog Posts Adultery is a private matter between the adulterer and his or her spouse Stories of Adultery
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Moran Rachel  Paid For: My journey through prostitution In my Blog Post Adultery, Prostitution and Male Sexuality
Murakami Haruki  Kafka on the Shore In my blog Post What Adultery Does to Us
Levithan David  The Lover’s Dictionary In my Blog Post Cheating, A Visceral Response
Lindbergh Anne Morrow  Gifts From The Sea In my Blog Post Marriage After Adultery
O’Rourke PJ  Eat The Rich: A treatise on economics In my Blog Post Responses to Betrayal
Peck M Scott  The Road Less Travelled In my Blog Post Staying After Adultery; The road less travelled
Pennebaker James  Writing To Heal In my Blog Post Inside The Adulterer’s Mind
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Rilke Rainer Maria  Letters to Benvenuta In my Blog Post Marriage After Adultery
Roosevelt Eleanor  You Learn by Living: Eleven Keys for a More Fulfilling Life In my Blog Post Should I stay or Should I Go
Rose Gillian  Love’s Work In my Blog Post Anger and Letting Go of Adultery
Roxana Robinson  Georgia O’Keeffe: A Life In my Blog Post Adultery: Socially Tolerated – Individually Unbearable
Russianoff Penelope  Why Do I Think I am Nothing Without a Man? In My Blog Post What is this Female Desperation for a Man?
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Seligman Martin  Learned Helplessness https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Learned_helplessness In my Blog Post I Never Meant To Hurt You
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Swindoll Charles Attitude In my Blog Post Not My Circus
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Wegner M. Wegner  White Bears and Other Unwanted Thoughts; Suppression, obsession, and the psychology of mental control In my Blog Post Is my thinking about adultery an obsession?
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