Blog Bibliography

15gen [Aug 29th 2014] ‘The Unsent Letter to MC’ in Regenerating Heart Blog https://regeneratingheart.wordpress.com/2014/08/29/the-unsent-letter-to-mc/#comments In my blog Post What Adultery Does to Us

ABC Media Watch [April 30th 2012] The shameless airing of an un-current affair In my Blog post Pulling the Pain of Betrayal Out of the Hat

Allard Nelly [2013] Couple Mechanics In My Blog Post Reasons to Stay after Betrayal

Allen Charlotte [2015] ‘Elizabeth Gilbert’s “I’m a Seduction Addict”–Well, That’s a Fancy Way of Saying, He Never Called’ Independent Women’s Forum In My Blog Post What is This Female Desperation For a Man?

Ariely Dan [2009] Predictably Irrational: The Hidden Forces That Shape Our Decisions  In my Blog Post Inside The Adulterer’s Mind

Bakhtin Mikhail [1993] Towards a Philosophy of the Act. In my Blog Post Over it? An Interesting Concept

Bancroft Lundy [2002] why Does He Do That; Inside the minds of angry and controlling men In my Blog Post Adultery Is Abuse

Bauman Zygmunt [2003] Liquid Love In My Blog Post Adultery and the Future of Commitment

Bercht Anne [2004] My Husband’s Affair Became the Best Thing That Ever Happened to Me in my Blog Post Stories of Adultery

Blake William [1794] The Sick Rose In my Blog Post My Marriage 13th August 2011 – 1st August 2012

Brach Tara [Aug 1st 2013] ‘Which Wolf Are You Feeding?’ in Huffpost In my Blog Post Choosing which Wolf to Feed

Burr Bill, DeRosa Joe, Kelly Robert [2012] Cheat: A man’s guide to Infidelity in my Blog Post Men Who Cheat – What the Other Woman Needs To Know

Byron Lord [1815] Stanzas for Music In my Blog Post Responses to Betrayal

Caldwell Gail  [2014] New life, no instructions in My Blog Post Reasons to Stay After Betrayal

Chester Phyllis [2001] Woman’s Inhumanity to Woman In my Blog Post The Other Woman’s Hatred For The Wife

 Coelho Paul [2014] Adultery in my Blog Post Pulling the Pain of Betrayal Out of the Hat

Coleridge Samuel Taylor [1797] The Rhyme of the Ancient Mariner In my Blog Post I am So Fed Up With Adultery

CrazyKat [Jul 24th 2015] ‘Shame’ in Try Not To Cry On My Rainbow Blog https://trynottocryonmyrainbow.wordpress.com/2015/07/24/shame/comment-page-1/#comment-2318 in my Blog Post Shame, Guilt and Adultery

Del Rey Lana The Other Woman In my Blog Post Wanting the Other Woman to Suffer

DeSteno David [2014] The Truth About Trust In My Blog Post Trust After Adultery

Didion Joan [2005] The Year of Magical Thinking In my Blog Post Responses to Betrayal

Druckerman Pamela [2007] Lust in Translation In my Blog Post Adultery: Socially Tolerated – Individually Unbearable

Elle [Jul 26th 2015] ‘The Ashley Madison Hack: Let’s Think of the Wives’ in the Betrayed Wives’ Club Blog http://betrayedwivesclub.blogspot.co.uk/2015/07/the-ashley-madison-hack-lets-think-of.html In my Blog Post The Hacking of Ashley Madison

Figes Kate [2013] Our Cheating Hearts; Love & Loyalty, Lust & Lies In my Blog Post  Is agreeing to work on my marriage after my husband’s infidelity an act of generosity, self preserving behaviour or sado-masochism?

Foster Wallace David [2005] Commencement Speech to Kenyon College class of 2005 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8CrOL-ydFMI In My Blog Post Adultery, Prostitution and Male Sexuality

Fromm Erich [1941] Escape from Freedom In my Blog Post Inside The Adulterer’s Mind

Galanes Philip [Jun 18th 2015] ‘Protecting the Babysitter’ in Style, New York Times http://www.nytimes.com/2015/06/21/style/protecting-the-babysitter.html?_r=0 in my Blog Post Stories of Adultery

Gay Roxane [Feb 13th, 1012] “Dear Young Ladies Who Love Chris Brown So Much They Would Let Him Beat Them” The Rumpus Blog: http://therumpis.net/2012/02/dear-young-ladies-who-love-chris-brown-so-much-they-would-let-him-beat-them/ In my Blog Post Dear Single Women Who ‘Love’ Married Men So Much They Let Them Use Them As Booty.

Giddens Anthony [1992] The Transformation of Intimacy In My Blog Post Adultery and the Future of Commitment

Gilbert Elizabeth [2015] ‘Confessions of a Seduction Addict’ in NY Times Magazine  In My Blog Post What is This Female Desperation for a Man

Golden Arthur [1997] Memoirs of a Geisha In my Blog Post Betrayed and Proud

Greene Graham [1951] The End of The Affair In my Blog Post  Why blog about adultery?

Greenwald Glenn [Aug 20th 2015] ‘The Puritanical Glee Over The Ashley Madison Hack’ The Intercept Blog https://theintercept.com/2015/08/20/puritanical-glee-ashley-madison-hack/ In my Blog Post Adultery is a private matter between the adulterer and his or her spouse

Griswold Charles L [2007] Forgiveness; a philosophical exploration In My Blog Post Forgiveness #2

Harris José N [2010] Mi Vida In my Blog Post Responses to Betrayal

Harris Sam [2011] Lying In my Blog Post Lying and Adultery

Hartley LP [1953] The Go-Between In my Blog Post Inside The Adulterer’s Mind

Hawthorne Nathaniel [1850] The Scarlet Letter In my Blog Post Understanding Why Adultery Happens

Hemingway Ernest [1929]  Farewell to Arms In my Blog Post Turning an ugly affair into a beautiful repaired marriage

Houston Pam [2008] ‘Not Istanbul’ in The Other Woman a collection of essays edited by Victoria Zackheim. In my Blog Post The Other Woman in Your Head

Jean E [Jan 26th 2015] ‘How Can I Clear My Guilt And Move On From An Affair’ in Elle http://www.elle.com/life-love/ask-e-jean/q-and-a/a14337/ask-e-jean-affair-etiquette/ In my Blog Post Advice For The Other Woman

Knapp Caroline [1996] Drinking; a love story In my Blog Post Seeing The Adultery Differently

Knight India [Oct 12th 2014]  excerpts from her new book ‘In Her Prime: Older, Wiser, Happier’ Sunday Times In my Blog Post Affairs So What?

Koppelman Susan [1993] The Other Woman; Stories of Two Women and a Man In my Blog Post How Does The Other Woman do it?

LaBier Douglas [2010] ‘Having An Affair? There Are Six Different Kinds’ in https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-new-resilience/201004/having-affair-there-are-six-different-kinds In My Blog Post Adultery, Prostitution and Male Sexuality

Lakoff George [2004] Don’t Think of an Elephant In my Blog Posts Adultery is a private matter between the adulterer and his or her spouse  Stories of Adultery

Lott Tim [May 17th 2013] ‘Whatever Happened to Adultery’ in The Guardian http://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2013/may/17/whatever-happened-to-adultery In My Blog Post Adultery – Just Harmless Fun?

MC [Aug 5th 2015] ‘Apology for infidelity’ in Reconcile4life Blog https://reconcile4life.wordpress.com/2015/08/05/mc-apology-for-infidelity/#comment-179 In my Blog Post Adultery: There are no satisfactory answers to why, but genuine remorse can heal the scars.

Moran Rachel [2013] Paid For: My journey through prostitution In my Blog Post Adultery, Prostitution and Male Sexuality

Murakami Haruki [2002] Kafka on the Shore In my blog Post What Adultery Does to Us

Levithan David [2010] The Lover’s Dictionary In my Blog Post Cheating, A Visceral Response

Lindbergh Anne Morrow [1955] Gifts From The Sea In my Blog Post Marriage After Adultery

O’Rourke PJ [1999] Eat The Rich: A treatise on economics In my Blog Post Responses to Betrayal

Peck M Scott [1978] The Road Less Travelled In my Blog Post Staying After Adultery; The road less travelled

Pennebaker James [2004] Writing To Heal In my Blog Post Inside The Adulterer’s Mind

Pittman Frank [1990] Private Lies: Infidelity and the Betrayal of Intimacy In my Blog Posts Inside The Adulterer’s Mind  Adultery – Just Harmless Fun?

Plump Wendy [2013] Vow A Memoir of Marriage (and Other Affairs) In My Blog Post Adultery and the Future of Commitment

Reibenstein Janet [2006] The Best-Kept Secret; How love can last forever In my Blog Post Over it? An interesting concept and Adultery and the Future of Commitment

Reynolds Rick [Aug 27th 2014] ‘Fantasyland of an Affair’ in Renewing a Right Spirit Blog https://djrenewing.wordpress.com/2014/08/27/rick-reynolds-fantasyland-of-an-affair/ In my Blog Post The Fantasyland of Adultery

Rilke Rainer Maria [1951] Letters to Benvenuta In my Blog Post Marriage After Adultery

Roosevelt Eleanor [1960] You Learn by Living: Eleven Keys for a More Fulfilling Life In my Blog Post Should I stay or Should I Go

Rose Gillian [1995] Love’s Work In my Blog Post Anger and Letting Go of Adultery

Rosewarne Lauren [2009] Cheating on the Sisterhood In My Blog Post What is This Female desperation For a Man? and Reasons to Stay After Betrayal

Roxana Robinson [1989] Georgia O’Keeffe: A Life In my Blog Post Adultery: Socially Tolerated – Individually Unbearable

Russianoff Penelope [1984] Why Do I Think I am Nothing Without a Man? In My Blog Post What is this Female Desperation for a Man?

Santayana George [1905] The Life of Reason; The phases of human progress in my Blog Post Seeing the Adultery Differently

Savage Dan [Aug 24th 2015] ‘Ashley Madison Hack: All Fun and Puritanical Games Until Somebody Gets Dead’ in The Stranger Blog http://www.thestranger.com/blogs/slog/2015/08/24/22750487/ashley-madison-hack-all-fun-and-puritanical-games-until-somebody-gets-dead In my Blog Post Adultery is a private matter between the adulterer and his or her spouse

Schorn Tracy Chump Lady; http://www.chumplady.com/ A tweaked ‘Universal Bullshit Detector’ in  my Blog Posts Ugly Blog Trollop  Choosing to terminate reconciliation

Seligman Martin [1967] Learned Helplessness https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Learned_helplessness In my Blog Post I Never Meant To Hurt You

Semmelroth Carl & Smith Donald [2000] The Anger Habit In my Blog Post Anger and Letting Go of Adultery

Shire Warsan [2012] 34 Excuses For Why We failed At Love http://apoemaday.tumblr.com/post/36961256148/34-excuses-for-why-we-failed-at-love In my Blog Post Responses to Betrayal

Shreve Anita  [1997] The Weight of Water In my Blog Post  Why blog about adultery?

Shreve Anita  [1999] The Pilots Wife In my Blog Posts Stories of Adultery Coping With Betrayal

Simon George [2011] Character Disturbance; the phenomenon of our age In my Blog Post Inside The Adulterer’s Mind and Why My Husband Committed Adultery

Strauss Darin [2010] Half a life In My Blog Post Reasons to Stay After Betrayal

Styles Ruth [Apr 9th 2015] ‘Still in love 10 years on: Charles and Camilla mark a decade of marriage’ in Mailonline  http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-3031588/Still-love-10-years-Charles-Camilla-mark-decade-marriage-intimate-photo-taken-Birkhall.html In my Blog Post Stories of Adultery

Swindoll Charles Attitude In my Blog Post Not My Circus

Tuch Richard [2002]  The Single Woman – Married Man Syndrome In my Blog Post Single Woman, Married Man and What is This Female Desperation For a Man?

Vachss Alice [1993] Sex Crimes In My Blog Post Adultery and its Collaborators

Vaughan Peggy [2003] The Monogamy Myth in my Blog Post Should I Stay or Should I go

Voisard Amanda [ Jul 19th 2014] ‘Vows; An Imperfect Beginning’ in Times Video http://www.nytimes.com/video/fashion/weddings/100000003010012/vows-an-imperfect-beginning.html?smid=tw-share In my Blog Post When the Media condones Adultery

Wegner M. Wegner [1994] White Bears and Other Unwanted Thoughts; Suppression, obsession, and the psychology of mental control In my Blog Post Is my thinking about adultery an obsession?

Wilde Oscar [1891] The Critic As Artist In my Blog Post Adultery: Socially Tolerated – Individually Unbearable

Wood James [Mar 11th 2013] ‘Broken Vows’ in The New Yorker http://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2013/03/11/broken-vows In my Blog Post Stories of Adultery

Yap-Daza Julie [Apr 28th 2007] ‘Etiquette for Mistresses’ in Lady Mistress Blog https://msmistress.wordpress.com/2007/04/28/etiquette-for-mistresses/ In my blog Post Single Woman, Married Man

 

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